Digging Up My Dark Past (because I don’t know what else to write about)

Very ominous title, I know. But I promise, this isn’t anything bad, it’s just really embarrassing on my part, but this blog is due and I might as well put this out into the world. 

 

Back in middle school, around the end of 6th grade and the start of 7th grade, all of my classmates were obsessed with this one website, Quora. I had never heard of this website before, but I was curious to find out, and so after a quick google search in the middle of class, I was logged into Quora.

 

For those of you who don’t know, Quora is basically just an online question and answer site, only really used by the vast majority of people when looking something very obscure up. However, a bored, kind of sheltered asian child in 7th grade does not belong in the same cohort as the vast majority of people, and so I went in deep

 

7th grade me had never used social media before, and so the dopamine hit that I got seeing numbers like upvote and follower count go up (even though it was just my friends giving me support) was unmatched. So, me being the muppet that I was, decided to keep chasing that high. I kept answering questions, trying to rack up social media points only to be disappointed when I would get 1 upvote (from myself) on an answer after an entire week. So I decided to go study the Quora meta. 

 

All the popular answers I saw on the for you page were long, they told interesting stories, they had pictures and humor and creativity. Again, I was a sheltered 12 year old so I didn’t exactly have a lot of stories to tell, much less the writing capability to make my meager stories interesting. What made this even more frustrating was that my classmates, who were also all over Quora, did have the rhetoric and wealth of stories to tell that garnered lots of attention. A friend of mine had an absurdly viral post (I’m talking like a hundred thousand upvotes), another classmate got followed by huge personalities on Quora at the time, others would only use Quora once or twice a month but gain huge numbers regardless. 

 

I was jealous.

 

I wanted the same clout as my classmates. I wanted to prove that I could write just as good as them. I didn’t want to feel inferior, and so I decided to change up my approach. 

The issue with what I was writing was that I was writing two or three sentence answers with awful grammar and zero pictures(I wrote an answer about this, you don’t need to read it). If you look at any popular Quora answer, all of those things that I mentioned are nonexistent traits unless the person writing the answer already has a big following. So once I implemented those changes, 1 or 2 upvotes turned to 10 or 12, but 10 or 12 wasn’t the hundred or even thousand that I was looking for. So I made an even more fundamental change: what I was writing about.

 

Instead of trying to come up with a story or attempt to make a funny response, I decided to instead focus in on what I knew a lot about at the time: anime, specifically Naruto. Essentially, I dedicated myself and my account into answering as many Naruto questions as I could in hope of monopolizing the Naruto question and answer market.

I would write at least one or two answers a day, some being easily 1000+ words filled with pictures and hyperlinks and everything else that I could think of. The opportunity cost of this time was a pretty significant slide in my grades, which my parents were very unhappy about but I didn’t care. I needed that clout.

 

Thankfully, my time wasn’t completely wasted. My numbers would slowly go up, a dozen followers turned into a hundred. A thousand views turned into a hundred thousand, which turned into millions. My average upvote count went from 10 to twenty to thirty and so on. I even had a couple of answers break out of the usual anime sphere and go on to gain a couple thousand upvotes. I was on the leaderboards for most viewed anime writers. The cherry on top of it all was when I received a random DM on Quora, only for me to open it up and find out that I had been designated a top writer for Quora in 2018.

I had achieved everything I had set out to do and more. The only issue was that it came at the cost of a lot of time. As I said before my grades slipped, but there was also more than that. I was forsaking going out and doing other (probably more important) activities. Extracurriculars, hanging out with my friends, studying, etc. So by the end of 7th grade, I decided that in the best interests of myself, I would stop writing on Quora. I deactivated my account, and moved on with my life. But looking back (past my very cringy answers), I had a lot of fun. I experimented with my writing styles and learned a lot about how to actually write something decently coherent. I haven’t gone back to write anything on Quora at all, but I have used it to do some research on colleges, so I guess that’s useful.

 

Also, I’m realizing right now that these blog posts are awfully similar to Quora answers, so there’s food for thought.

5 thoughts on “Digging Up My Dark Past (because I don’t know what else to write about)

  1. Hey, Alec, this blog really captured my attention! I used to be such a big fan of Quora as well and would spend so much time scrolling from one thing to the next and reading responses to stuff I was curious about. I deleted it a while ago cause I felt like I was getting addicted, but I remember my favorite “writer” (idk, question-answerer?) was Gabren Williams. Much like you, he puts lots of pictures and links into his answers, so I always had a lot of fun reading his posts. Although, I never actually answered any questions like you cause I was too scared of exposing myself to the public. Even though you’re not active on Quora anymore, I still think it’s insane how you were able to attain 2 million views and become a top writer! You must really know your Naruto stuff! But I think it was so mature of you, even at a young middle-school age, to realize that online fame wasn’t worth it and that you should instead be spending time at school with your friends. If it were me I would’ve just kept going without a care in the world, lol. Awesome job, Alec!

  2. Hi Alec! I hope you had a great weekend! First, I would like to commend your honesty with how this blog topic came about. I have also struggled with topics at some points. However, even though you did not know what else to write about, this was an amazing topic! I was also one of the middle schoolers that was hooked on Quora and found myself on the website nearly every period. I like how you talk about being different from the normal crowd that visited Quora’s website and how your goals were different from others. I was different from you in that I would rarely respond to questions, I mainly just read the answers. The sentence “I wanted the same clout as my classmates,” is so honest and funny at the same time. I like how you also talk about how you decided to adapt in order to gain more upvotes – especially with writing different types of responses and more about what you genuinely cared about. Finally, I enjoy how you ended your blog on the ‘mountain-top’ so to speak, but remained honest and said that Quora needed to be moved on from. You accomplished your goal and moved on to the next challenge. Nice!

  3. Alec,
    Wow… this whole blog post really just brought me back to the middle school Quora craze. It’s so interesting how obsessed everyone was with it, and even more interesting that some people got so many upvotes and followers, especially since we were all so young. The desire for clout, big followings, and viral answers was all too widespread back then, and I think it translates into how we crave affirmation on social media as young adults now too. But that exhilarating joy that you get from having a viral answer with hundreds of upvotes, and in your case, becoming a top writer, is undoubtedly addicting. Personally, I remember being really happy after writing my first relatively popular answer, even though in hindsight, it was a really embarrassing story to write about. And I applaud you for having the self-control to deactivate your own account and get on track – my mom had to tell me to stop using Quora, hence the retirement of my “Resident Red-Hooded Cat” account. I’m grateful to her for that decision, though; otherwise, I might be writing Quora answers at this very moment instead of doing MVC homework. This post was an entertaining read; great job!

  4. This was a really interesting blog! This is such a cool aspect of your childhood that maybe you don’t get the opportunity to talk about very often. To start off with, I admire how open you were about all of your flaws. You criticized your motivations and the outcomes of your decisions, but that means you recognize the value in the life outside of social media. Despite this, I still believe that this was a cool experience to have. To a degree, it demonstrates problem solving skills, as you were able to analyze why your posts weren’t being successful, and you put in the effort to find a solution to those issues. Not only did you put in that effort, you found quick success, which is a tribute to your ability. Overall, I think this was a neat story, and while you may have moved on from Quora now, I still think the experience could have been worthwhile. Also, I think me and every other classmate would be happy to read some Quora-style blogs. That would be amazing.

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