Your (Unofficial) Guide to Losing Your Phone

What do you do when you get your phone stolen?

My phone = this phone + slight screen cracks + loss of touchscreen at the top + dirtier

Okay, so here’s the backstory. A couple of weeks ago, after getting home from the badminton preseason meeting, I noticed my phone was missing. I checked my backpack and everything, even tracked it online but it was clearly not at school where I had last used it and was moving along Washington, so it became evident that someone had taken my phone (why they would want to steal a slightly cracked and outdated iPhone 7 with a faulty touchscreen with a resale value of probably around $100-150, but with at least a $50 investment in repairs is beyond me). After much stress and struggle, I managed to get my phone back. Here’s what I did, what you should do in case of a stolen phone, and what you should probably avoid doing.

Disclaimer: What works for me may not work for you! This guide serves as only a non-comprehensive guide to be used with other resources online!

1. STALK THE PHONE

First, before you do ANYTHING, make sure you actually lost the phone and by lost, I mean not accidentally misplacing your phone somewhere. Try searching your bag, hands, pockets,  and nearby surroundings a couple of times or even straight-up calling your phone a few times with a friend’s phone if it’s not on mute.

pinpoint the phone’s location

If you still can’t find your phone after much effort, try tracking your phone. Smartphones are especially helpful in this aspect because phones usually have preinstalled tracking apps that can be accessed either online or on a friend’s phone. Although these apps may not be 100% accurate to the exact location, they will point you to the general location on a map. This can also help gauge if you simply just misplaced the phone, or if it actually got stolen (phone moving on a road or phone found at a different location shows high possibility, both of which I noticed while tracking my phone on the Find My iPhone). For Apple users that have misplaced their iPhone or know the thief is nearby, you can use the ‘play sound’ feature on Find My iPhone to find your phone by year.

2. CONTEMPLATE YOUR NEXT ACTIONS

There’s a lot of different paths you can take if you noticed that your phone is legitimately gone. If you’ve lost it at somewhere you regularly frequent (school for me, but possibly workplaces or public areas/shops) there’s a chance that someone simply accidentally took your phone or kept it for safekeeping and might return it the next day. Maybe give it a day or two and don’t directly jump to conclusions. However, there are some additional steps you can take to ensure the highest possibility of getting your phone back, following this step.

3. LOCK THE PHONE

advice: always keep a password!

Hopefully, you have working passcode(s) of some sort to protect your personal information. If not, you run the possibility of identity theft and loss of money (online credit cards, Venmo, Apple/Samsung Pay, etc. on your phone). Luckily for you, some tracking apps make it possible to lock your phone through the tracking app so your money and personal information can be protected to some degree.

4. SPAM THE PHONE

Call it by using your friend’s phone. Text it too (I like a mixture of polite texts but also using the fear factor with threats of calling the cops on the thief).

5. NOTIFY THE PHONE

Turn on lost mode (Apple users only, but most brands have an equivalent) and set a phone number to contact you, as well as the message to show up on the phone’s screen.  Lost mode also automatically locks your phone and turns on low power mode to maximize battery life.

6. CONFRONT THE THIEF

Disclaimer: This may or may not be an extremely terrible idea. Although I personally went with my parents and followed my phone to someone’s house, it also could’ve been very dangerous. Proceed at your own caution!!!

If you’ve waited and you are sure that the thief probably isn’t going to return your phone anytime soon, an option is to follow the tracking app to your phone and ask for your phone back.

confront thieves, not chess pieces

However, this could prove to be very dangerous. You may not know where exactly the place is and you don’t know who took your phone. You also don’t know if they could or will actually hurt you, but one thing is clear: your life isn’t worth risking for retrieving a stolen phone. Try using Google Maps street view and the tracked address to gauge whether the phone’s location is safe or sketchy. If in doubt, you can also try calling the police station and asking for advice.

Also, if you do confront the thief, be careful. Definitely be polite and firm but NOT accusatory when asking for your phone back. The person who answers the door may not be the thief and may not know what’s going on, so have so respect for them. If they deny having the phone, you can use the ‘play sound’ feature or call your phone to make it go off and possibly expose them. If that still doesn’t work,  you can firmly but NOT rudely threaten to call the cops or just leave then call the cops.

7. CALL THE COPS

If you’ve done everything you can and the thief won’t return your phone or if the thief/phone location is potentially dangerous, it’s a sign to step back and let the police handle the case. Call the cops, file a police report, and give them your number/phone’s serial number so they can track the phone. There’s nothing else you can do but hope you get the phone back but if you have insurance for your phone, the police report may allow you to get some money for it.

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C-Dramas You Should Watch (pt. 1)

Want to get into c-dramas, but don’t know what to watch? This blog post’s for you!

Following up on my guide to watching c-dramas, I decided to rate all the (modern) c-dramas I’ve finished since I started in spring during spring break of last year. Here’s the first half of the (still-growing) list!

Love 020 (微微一笑很倾城) – 7.5/10

Chinese title translation: A Smile is Beautiful/Weiwei’s Beautiful Smile (pun)

Love o2o is a college drama, but it’s not just your typical one love at first sight style ones. Plot twist: Xiao Nai falls for Weiwei’s gaming skills! The drama features the sole female Top 10 PK player “Luwei Weiwei” and #1 PK player “Yixiao Naihe”, who meet over the video game “A Chinese Ghost Story” (who needs Tinder when you have video games?) and get married to complete quests. Coincidentally, they actually go to the same college: “Weiwei” is actually the CS goddess Bei WeiWei and “Naihe” is actually the senior star student, Xiao Nai. This drama, although stereotypical at times and not perfect (worst kissing!), is a refreshing change to the miscommunication found in typical dramas. The side characters also add so much depth and emphasize the importance of friendship, while adding much-needed humor + roasts, both offline and online. Besides the drama, but the OSTs in the Love o2o are all amazing and fit the drama so well, especially the ending song.  Yang Yang’s (actor playing Xiao Nai) voice is just so soothing and the song is so adorable. I could listen on repeat.

Trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tiiN4rDwa8g

Put Your Head on My Shoulder (致我们暖暖的小时光)- 9.5/10

Chinese title translation: To Our Warm Little Times

The most wholesome college drama ever! PYHOMS lowkey has a Doraemon theme which I love, but basically everything about the drama is too adorable, I’m just so obsessed. Even the sound effects and music/OSTs are just too cute and it adds so much to the c-drama’s humor and adorableness. Like A Love So Beautiful (psst! they are both drama adaptations from different books of the same author), it’s a coming of age drama, featuring a confused accounting but aspiring advertising student, Si Tu Mo, that accidentally rooms with a genius (painfully socially awkward) physics student, Gu Wei Yi, helping her get her life together for after graduation. This drama’s definitely more of a lighthearted rom-com/sitcom as there’s not a whole lot of plot, but it makes up that through its relatability + hilarious awkward moments (especially Gu Wei Yi’s dating struggles) + adorable relationship goals.

Trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ERY3SqKoL68

A Love So Beautiful (致我们单纯的小美好)- 9.5/10

Chinese translation: To Our Simple Little Beauty

Tired of your typical guy-chases-girl type shows? This one’s for you. Here’s THE high school drama that definitely won’t disappoint! This refreshing coming-of-age drama starts off with an adorably short student, Chen Xiaoxi, chasing a super tall model student (who rejects her, kind of rudely at times) all throughout high school as they grow up and mature into young adults. But don’t worry, Xiaoxi isn’t discouraged, she’s going to keep chasing him until he likes her back. I love especially love this drama because it’s so relatable to high school students, has the purest moments, and teaches important life lessons. Besides, Xiaoxi’s happiness and smile are so infectious and you just won’t be able to stop yourself smiling and laughing along with her as she learns to conquer the gaokao and obstacles in life.

Trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KvuM-M6IrRE

Before We Get Married (我們不能是朋友)- 8.5/10

Title translation/better title: We Cannot Be Friends

Not a c-drama, but a t-drama (Taiwanese drama, still in Chinese so close enough)! First of all, this drama was more mature and intense than any of c-dramas previously watched (esp. the first 2 episodes which are overly aggressive/almost rape-like, but definitely goes up from there). Essentially, this drama is about Zhou Weiwei and Chu Kehuan, who essentially cheat on their significant other with each other.  Although cheating is obviously bad, this drama brings an interesting take and a somewhat more realistic light to unhappy/unhealthy relationships, the importance of self-love/dignity, and a different side of cheating, all of which I applaud the producers for. I also do have to say, the leads Puff Kuo and Jasper Liu have AMAZING chemistry (tbh modern c-drama chemistry just can’t beat) and they just sell the drama so well. Although the drama is definitely more on the short side with only 13 episodes, the fact that each episode is super intense, addicting, and a rollercoaster of emotions makes this worth watching.

Trailers: https://www.viki.com/videos/1151525v-trailerhttps://www.viki.com/videos/1151526v-ending-theme-song

Pleasantly Suprised/Love Myself or You (喜歡·一個人)- 9.0/10

Chinese title translation: Liking A Person

(Pleasantly) Surprise(d)! Another t-drama! This one actually came out in 2014 but has the same leads from Before We Get Married + some more (hint: Boss lady Jessica in BWGM = Bao Zhu Jie, the waitress). Since I watched Before We Get Married as it was being released 1 ep/week, I picked this cooking drama up as I was waiting for new episodes. This is probably the cheesiest drama I’ve ever watched, but it’s so wholesome and hilarious, complete with the overly dramatic Mozart + cooking/food + sound effects. Like Before We Get Married, this t-drama is pretty unconventional, featuring an independent female protagonist with an abusive father while being basically a single mom taking care of her dead sister’s son and your boy-next-door protagonist with an overly controlling brother, working at Figaro Cuisine as chefs. It can be slightly over the top at times, but it’s such a lighthearted comedy and honestly much watch after an intense BWGM binge to relax, or even if you just want some laughs.

Trailers: https://www.viki.com/videos/1039560v-trailer-1, https://www.viki.com/videos/1040360v-trailer-2

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I double-checked and made sure that all of these c/t-dramas are available to watch for free on Viki with completed english subtitles. So pick a drama, and get watching!

HAPPY C-DRAMA WATCHING!

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