Month: October 2019

A Whirlwind of Bad Decisions

Have you ever been completely blindsided by a situation? You know, where you go in thinking one thing is about to happen but turns out you are in for a completely different turn of events?

Well, if your answer is yes, then I can assure you that you’ll be able to relate to Patrick Maloney in Roald Dahl’s, Lamb to the Slaughter. Even the title of the story gives insight to the reader about the plotline of the text. The phrase, “lamb to the slaughter” is often used when a person goes into a situation completely unaware of the dangers that lie ahead and therefore acts calmly in the situation they find themselves in. 

Roald Dahl: Author of Lamb to the Slaughter and other fiction works.

The Author

Roald Dahl is best known as a fiction author and most popularly known for writing, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory. Dahl takes a slightly dark turn and instead of his normally upbeat fiction works, he wrote the short story, Lamb to the Slaughter. He often uses crude humor throughout his works and there is often controversy surrounding his works from parents. But it is up to you to decide how to interpret his various works of fiction. 

The Story

By the title of the story, I’m sure you can tell this is not going to be the happy-go-lucky children’s stories you may be used to from him. 

Lamb to the Slaughter details the life of a pregnant woman, Mary Maloney and her husband, Patrick Maloney. Mary is the typical housewife, cleaning and cooking for Patrick to show that she cares about him (which are normal roles for women in the 1950’s). However, one night Patrick gives her some unfortunate news; news that is just too much for Mrs. Maloney to handle. Her frazzled actions lead to a whirlwind of bad decisions including killing her husband with a frozen leg of lamb. The events that unfold next show how Mrs. Maloney decides to deal with her actions. 

Dahl’s inspiration for writing the short story is rather funny. It all started over a simple dinner with his friend, Ian Fleming (writer of James Bond). Their dinner had been ruined by a poorly cooked leg of lamb which had frustrated Fleming so much he said that the cook should be shot. Thus Dahl’s inspiration for Lamb to the Slaughter. 

Big Picture

Lamb to the Slaughter is a MUST read and I would give it 5/5 stars. While it engages the reader throughout the story building suspense and plot twists around every corner, it also shows important life lessons to them. 

One of the themes in the short story is about the imbalance of gender roles in society and how women are often overlooked in a man’s eyes. I think it is important to think about the time period in which the story was written to truly grasp what Dahl is trying to show to his readers. 

Depiction of Mary’s daily life, living with Patrick.

In the 1950’s it was very common for women to be the caretaker of the family. Mary Maloney is the perfect example of a housewife. Mary’s initial description goes as follows; pregnant, caretaker, cooks for her husband and occupies her days waiting for her husband to return home from work. Dahl sets the scene by showing the reader that the main purpose Mary has in her marriage to Patrick is to take care of him (sadly this still happens today).

Mary clearly lives in a patriarchal society where her husband is free to have his job, and roam the streets while Mary is left to take care of the house and eventually, her child. Her entire life is centered around that of her husband. Before he returns to the house, she tidies up the house, and from the moment he walks in the door she hangs up his coat, offers to get him a drink, as well as cook him dinner.

Dahl is also able to highlight the imbalance of love and affection in their relationship when Patrick never reciprocates the feelings that Mary puts forth. All of the minor details that happen in their relationship, begin to add up over time. Mary has a load of pent up frustration (and rightfully so) over Patrick and eventually lets out her anger on her husband. 

Throughout the story, we see that Patrick often views his wife as less than him in that she always prepares dinner and does the chores around the house. These preconceived notions that Patrick holds against his wife ultimately blindside him, and he underestimates the powers of his wife. 

While Mary goes to the extreme with killing her husband, Dahl is able to highlight these gender roles that are still present in today’s society. Even towards the end of the story, the detectives only enhance Mary’s role as the caregiver when they refer to the murderer only using words such as “he” or “him”. 

Although we may like to believe that these gender roles are no longer present in our society, we can not overlook the fact that they are very much still there. It is important that we bring these issues to light and fight for the rights of women because it is the 21st century and it is way past the time where women and men should be treated equally in all respects of life. 

While Lamb to the Slaughter is a suspense-filled story that many will enjoy reading, we have to take a deeper look into what Roald Dahl is saying about women and ultimately how we can change these preconceived notions about women. 

Check out the video rendition!

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x70l4os

 

 

 

How to Cope With Stress Throughout High School

As high school seniors, we can all relate to the stress of schooling. Whether it be filling out our college applications (possibly the night before they are due), or the endless amounts of homework we receive every night (mostly from math ugh). While these are natural parts of high school, it is important to know how to relieve loads of pressure and stress we are under.

Lucky for you, I have a few tips that have helped me cope with the massive amounts of stress the college process and the AP courseload has brought me. The following are my top 4 ways to stop you from having a mental breakdown as a result of your stress.

#1.) Make Time for Self-Care

This is an essential step in eliminating your stress levels. Sometimes the best way to cope with stress is to just walk away. I have had countless experiences in which I am struggling with a math problem or am just overwhelmed, and the best thing to do is just a step back. Forcing yourself to sit there, getting overly frustrated will do nothing except heighten your stress levels. When you see this happening, simply take a step back, go play your favorite game, watch an episode of your favorite show on Netflix, or another activity that you truly enjoy. This gives your brain a chance to just reset. Sometimes we get so worked up that it becomes hard to think or change our perceptions on the problem, stepping back is an effective way to cleanse your mind and you can come back to the work once you have had a minute to calm down.

#2.) Listen to Music

There have been countless studies that show the powers of music and how it can be therapeutic. One of the most obvious reasons is that music has the power to put you in a better mood. When you are feeling stressed out, try playing music from your favorite band and just feel your heartbeat in rhythm with the song. Just let loose, don’t worry about the work you are doing and simply let the music take you to a state of peace. One article states that ” The uplifting sound of music and the positive or cathartic messages that can be conveyed in the lyrics can all be routes to a new mental state as well. This can help prevent the stress response from wreaking havoc on the body and can help keep creativity and optimism levels higher, bringing many other benefits.”

#3.) Think Positively of Yourself

It is never a good sign to constantly be nagging yourself for every mistake you make. Being too hard on yourself only leads to further stress and anxiety towards school. I certainly fall victim to this in that I sometimes get too upset over a bad grade. The most important thing here is to realize that failing a test or quiz is really not the end of the world, although it may seem so at the time. This is a natural part of high school, and the purpose of life is to make mistakes. You have to be able to accept that you are not perfect and you never will be, which is totally ok! Be sure to celebrate your success and not just the rough times throughout school, this will most definitely relieve some of the stressful moments of high school.

#4.) Put Your Phone Away While Doing Homework

This can be one of the most difficult things to do but it is one of the most important aspects of relieving stress. I know that we have all fallen victim to doing our homework and honestly just wanting a tiny break. You say you are just going to scroll through Instagram for 5 minutes but the next thing you know, it has been an hour and you are nowhere close to being done with your work. This is how we get to the 1:00 am bedtimes and being too tired to function at school. Sleep is one of the most important aspects of a teenager’s life, with the constant hustle and bustle of our lives sleep is incredibly important, without it we can just imagine the stress that builds up. We are too tired to truly pay attention at school and from this, we fall behind on our schoolwork. This all stems from being too distracted by our phones while doing homework, so the best thing to do is to just put it away!

I hope that these have been helpful tips and that you try some of these out. I know that they have made a huge difference in my stress levels, which trust me I have plenty of and I hope that they can help you manage your stress! While high school is a time to focus on getting good grades, it is also a time to go out and have fun with your friends, don’t let your stress get in the way of that!

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