I think one of the most important ideas I learned from my research was just how many poor portrayals of mental illness there are in the media. I think it speaks to a greater misunderstanding of mental illness, and it’s something that we need to work hard to correct. Recently, portrayals of mental illness have become more accurate and less sensationalized, but there is more work to be done.
I also learned a lot about how many mental illnesses are underdiagnosed in children, especially in underprivileged communities. Too often troubling behavior is ignored, dismissed, or labeled as something that a child will “grow out of”. Early recognition of mental illness can help parents develop a treatment plan before symptoms worsen. The key to doing this is educating parents on mental illness and pushing parents to take their children’s emotions more seriously.
My time at North has been great, and I think that I have done a good job of pursuing things that I am interested in and staying on top of school work. If I could give advice to incoming freshmen, it would be to take advantage of all the opportunities that North offers. Growing up in Naperville we are all very privileged to have access to such a great public school system, and many of us take it for granted. Take interesting classes that aren’t offered in other schools, go to school events, and join all of our very well-funded and well-established clubs that interest you.
That being said, my second piece of advice would be that high school does not matter (or at least not as much as you think it does right now). You should try in school because it can set you up for success for the rest of your life – but just because your GPA isn’t as high as someone else’s doesn’t mean you’re going to be less successful or less happy than them for the next 70 years of your life. Just because someone is going to a higher-ranked college than you doesn’t mean you’re going to be less successful or less happy than them for the next 70 years of your life. It’s easy for us to think that everything is life or death right now – friend groups, sports, grades – but when you look back on your high school years, the only thing you’ll be left with is the memories you made. It’s important to take a step back and realize that these are just another four years of your life. What’s most important right now is spending the time to develop yourself into the person you want to be, and to surround yourself with people that you appreciate. I think too often we separate high school from college, and college from “real life” or the “real world”. Sure, they’re different, but don’t waste 8 years waiting to start your “real life”. This is real life right now – find the things that make you happy and pursue them.




